I donít want my children to feel they must care for me when Iím old
I would never want to be looked after by someone who begrudged the fact. I would rather be in a care home Ė or on the street. If the support doesnít come from the heart rather than some anguished moral balance sheet, then Iím not interested. Although, I may feel differently when Iím 90 and canít even change my own adult nappies.